BEACONS OF COMMON SENSE-The Middle of the Road

In a few short months, another election will be here.  We the People will have another chance to “speak,” and tell our leaders what we want them to do.  

When we elect representatives in our American Democracy, we ask them to represent us because they come from us, and are like us.  They should do their work on behalf of us.  They should serve, not rule.  They should serve briefly and then make room for others.  They shouldn’t have perks, literally, they should have what we have, and live as we do.  They should be honest so we can respect them. 

It’s time to begin a new era!  Elective office is a public service opportunity, not a career.  (REPEAT).  Elective office is a public service opportunity, not a career.

So now, please join me in the middle of the American road with a new focus on possibility and potential.  Let’s not drive on the left or right shoulders, but travel down the middle of the road, where the language spoken is common sense supported by HONESTY AND PUBLIC SERVICE.  While the shoulders certainly define the outer limits or extremes of the road, and every road has its shoulders, they aren’t where we should be traveling down, and certainly not governing from.  

Just as the speed bumps on the shoulders can shake a car apart, literally shake a car apart, in some kind of grand intramural tug of war, the left and right are shaking our country apart.  IT’S DISGUSTING AND JUST PLAIN WRONG!  IT NEEDS TO STOP!

If we can find balance in the middle of the road, a destiny of continued blessings for each of us, and for America, will be assured.  Yes!  Let’s meet in the middle of the road where common sense lives.  Let’s use our right to free speech responsibly.   However, with the right comes the responsibility to listen.  Even more, listening must mean we are willing to change.  We must be willing to let the other person, or the other argument, or the other viewpoint change us.  If we all come with that commitment, we will indeed meet in “the middle of the road,” and continue building an incredibly strong Common Sense for America.

. . .  remember that America’s best days aren’t behind her.   America’s best days are ahead of her.  They always have been and always will be.

Dave

Copyright © 2018 by David William Wygant. All rights reserved.

PASSION vs. ANGER

At the State of the Union address last Tuesday, January 30, 2018, expressions of anger abounded with a certain group of elected representatives and their leaders. It was sad and even alarming to see the spectacle of our political divides, as created by the politicians, playing out before our eyes.  What we saw had nothing to do with who is President and who isn’t.  

If Ronald Reagan had given that State of the Union speech, it would have been more evidence of how he was a “great communicator.”  If John F. Kennedy had given it, it would reverberate for decades to come like others he gave.  My fellow Americans, we are witnessing the greatest intramural power competition in history, and “We the People” are paying dearly for it in many ways, including our treasure.

On the playing field of public service, both passion and anger will appear.  We need to remember that passion is one of the most positive forces in the universe when properly understood and used.  Anger is the most destructive for both the person expressing it, and those around them.  Public office and public leadership is a multiplier of both or either.

PASSION vs. ANGER

• Passion is separated from anger by a very thin line.
• Passion for something or someone looks outward for what it can accomplish and the good it can do.  Anger for something or someone is only about the person who is angry.
• Both produce and bring tremendous energy.  One is so creative and the other so dangerous.
• Passion is directed toward achievement and accomplishment.  
• Anger is directed at the thing or person who is hated, or both.  Anger is destructive of everyone and everything that it touches.  It is most destructive of the angry person.

“We the People” must remember the behavior of our public servants last Tuesday and every day.  Then we must act on those memories on election day.  We must remember the difference between passion and anger.  Then at the 2018 midterm election in November, we must choose.

. . .  remember that America’s best days aren’t behind her.   America’s best days are ahead of her.  They always have been and always will be.

Dave

Copyright © 2018 by David William Wygant. All rights reserved.  

Candidates Obama and Romney, PLEASE CHANGE YOUR TUNE!

This post is dedicated to VOTING ALERT BEACON #3: LISTEN / IGNORE

Instead of criticizing each other, calling each other names, and effectively bullying each other in the name of becoming President of the United States, it’s time for both of you to turn away from each other and face the voters.  Talk to us!  Remember, we have the votes you want.

Last Friday, Candidate Obama made a speech on the economy in which he said something about the private sector doing pretty good.  Of course, Candidate Romney jumped on that like he had found a vein of gold and his inauguration for the Presidency was going to be next week.  Really, Mr. Romney, you didn’t give us all the context and the things you said were not very nice.

Yesterday, on Tuesday, Mr. Obama commented in a speech that Mr. Romney had learned entirely the wrong lessons from a successful career in business spanning 25 years.  He went to say how flawed he thinks Mr. Romney’s economic ideas are.  There was a tone of ridicule.

In the past week, I’ve read several articles questioning whether both candidates have lost touch with reality, and whether they are able to connect with the voters.  Think about it.  We have two individuals who want our votes, but spend their time yelling at each other.  At a time when we need new ideas about how to move into the future, we have two individuals who stubbornly insist on looking backward and blaming each other for history.

GUYS, PLEASE PAY ATTENTION!  YOU NEED YOU TO TALK TO US, THE VOTERS.  WE WANT TO HEAR ABOUT THE FUTURE AND WHAT YOU’RE GOING TO DO TO GET US THERE.  EACH OF YOU NEEDS TO TELL US WHAT YOUR VISION OF SUCCESS IS.  THEN WE’LL TAKE IT FROM THERE.  WE’LL VOTE FOR THE VISION WE THINK WILL GET US THERE.

Oh, one more thing.  I am dead sick and tired of spending time in a school classroom all day, or volunteering my time in youth development, where we constantly teach our children and future leaders how to talk to each other.  We work hard at helping them understand how rotten bullying is, and that it isn’t acceptable.  I think we’re making a lot of progress with the kids.  Then I come home and find you two guys acting like bullies on the national news in the name of becoming President of the United States.  PLEASE KNOCK IT OFF!


. . .  remember that America’s best days aren’t behind her.   America’s best days are ahead of her.  They always have been and always will be.

Dave

Copyright © 2012 by David William Wygant. All rights reserved.

All elementary school teachers have helped their students through the process of learning how to play with their fellow students on the playground.  It’s not uncommon for arguments to break out, and from time to time and they can become physical.  These disagreements have many common causes.  There is name calling, not knowing how to share, who got there first, unintentional shoving and bumping, ownership disputes, “me” is more important than you or the rest of you, and more.   To a teacher, all of this is opportunity.

This is where children learn to be good neighbors and not playground bullies.  There are many ways to work through a disagreement with two students including cooling off and calming down, trading spots to encourage empathy-“how do you think they feel?”, talking and negotiation.  The lessons are fundamental to good citizenship.  Lessons like selflessness instead of selfishness, being helpful and not hurtful, talk and negotiation instead of force, and empathy.  With practice, lessons are learned.

However, after learning all of this on the playground in elementary school why do we forget the lessons as adults?  Specifically, in politics why can adults who are well educated and aspiring leaders act like common playground bullies on TV and the rest of the media?  This is an age old question and this will only change through the disciplining process of losing an audience and losing votes.  The ultimate lesson is in losing an election.  What can ordinary citizens do with the right to vote?  How can we become the “elementary school teacher?”

As voters, what are the specific steps we can take to start this process?  It is simple but requires patient application over a long period.  Simply put, we should listen to candidates who talk about themselves and what they propose, and then ignore those candidates who talk about the other candidate and rarely talk about themselves.  Candidates should focus on telling their own story to the voters not distorting the story of the other person.  What a candidate says about their plan and themselves is important to us as voters.  What they say about the other candidate, isn’t.  As voters, we can decide.  We need to follow Voting Alert Beacon #3.

In my next post, I will discuss how the media can support a more positive process and Beacon #3, along with how Beacon #3 can be applied to them.

. . .  remember that America’s best days aren’t behind her.   America’s best days are ahead of her.  They always have been and always will be.

Dave

 Copyright © 2012 by David William Wygant. All rights reserved.